My cat, and how you too can care about the world

My cat, Haley, does not like other cats. She especially doesn’t care for the feral that we’ve semi-adopted, Patticat.

Haley stands vigil over Patticat.

Remember the Saturday Night Live skit character, Pat, that androgynous, asexual “person” whom no one could ever tell was male or female? Well, before we captured Patticat and had her spayed through the Trap, Neuter, Release program, we couldn’t tell which sex she was, so we named her Pat. After we knew she was a girl, it just morphed into Patticat.

Well, Haley will have none of her. And Patticat has become semi-domesticated, she comes inside and eats, gets affection (though she won’t be held for more than a second) and will even jump up on the bed and sleep on an old blanket we have up there for her. And she is dying to be friends with Haley. Nope. Haley will give her a quick sniff – then a sharp smack! And Patticat will flop down in submission and try to squirm close to Haley, at which point Haley will give her another pop and storm away. It’s been two years since Patticat has been trying to buddy up to Haley, she just won’t have it.

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Not Without My Dog…

Think about losing your job and having your lights turned off.  Now think about being locked out of your home by the mortgage company.  Then the repo guy comes for your car.  No cell phone.  No computer. Not even a change of clothes.  You sit on a street until you are run out of the neighborhood because now you’re a vagrant – no longer wanted. 

You walk and walk until dark falls.  You hover under a bridge for shelter from the rain and find a beat up cardboard box you crawl into for the night.  Everything is gone. E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G.  Days turn into weeks.  You beg on the corner for loose change while people drive by yelling, “Get a job!”  You have nothing.

Then one day she comes loping down the street.  She’s dirty, thirsty, and has a wary look in her eye.  She draws near and you offer this four-legged visitor some water, keeping your distance.  She laps the water quickly, looks up and for the briefest of moments, she wags her tail.  You extend your hand.  She slowly crawls to you.  And now you have someone else to focus on.  Someone who is as beat up as  you.  Someone homeless like you.  Someone without anything in the world – except now she has you and you have her.

You bond.  She follows you.  You share your food from the dumpster.  She sleeps next to you at night, keeping you warm.  Where you go, she patiently follows.  You talk to her, tell her it will get better…someday. She becomes your world.

Then someday it does get better.  You hear about an open shelter.  You head that way hoping to be first in line. You reach the building and there, in bold letters, is a sign that says, “No Pets”.  You look at your companion. You turn and walk away to find a new bridge and a new box. Continue reading