30 Days of Thanksgiving

It begins today, November 1.  It’s called “30 Days of Thanksgiving” and the premise is simple.  Each day, starting today and going through the end of November, you think/write/post one thing you are thankful for that day.

Stan, who works in our office and blogs often for us, got many of us started on this last year.  I was one of those folks.

In the beginning, I had tons of things to list but as the month went on, I really had to think a bit more deeply.  After all, life is hard.  Plus I work in an environment where that hardness of life shows up daily – so many people in such dire straits, such desperate need!

Just about the time I think I can’t take the sadness of such desperate need any longer, I get the chance to meet someone like:

JOE: who lost his job, his gorgeous home, and his prized green Jaguar car.  He survived and shares his story with his message of “you don’t need all that stuff to be happy.”

HANNAH: whose parents could not figure out why she stopped talking at 18 months of age.  After numerous specialists’ visits, they learned Hannah was autistic.  Today, Hannah is a bubbly and very talkative 6 year old attending elementary school.

CHARLES: whose pastor found him living in a tool shed.  In his seventies, Charles was barely holding on but with love and care he’s living in his own apartment, eating well and getting plenty of exercise.

So I’m going to start my “30 Days of Thanksgiving” with I am thankful for great organizations like United Way, filled with caring employees and fabulous donors and volunteers, who are making a huge difference to so many people who are struggling with meeting their basic needs of food, shelter, health, education and so much more.

What are you thankful for today?




Dear Santa, I’d like a Justin Bieber doll….and please help my Dad find a job.

North Charleston Christmas Festival and ParadeWith the struggling economy and high unemployment, many families have fewer resources this year, and children who are sensitive to their parent’s situations are asking for less from Santa.  According to the Associated Press, Santa is hearing requests for the necessities – a job for mom, money for heat, gloves or shoes.

Our local parenting magazine Carolina Parent highlights this article in their recent piece and offers suggestions on how families can turn this difficult time into a positive learning experience by emphasizing the value of giving over receiving.

There a multiple opportunities for children to help others in the community by delivering meals through Meals on Wheels, serving or providing food to local shelters like the Inter-Faith Council for Social Service, or contributing through programs like Share your Christmas with the Volunteer Center of Durham.  Call one of our Partner Agencies to find out how you could help families served by their organization over the holidays and throughout the year.

Need some help convincing your kiddos?  Who better to help sell them on volunteering than Justin Bieber, who talks about the importance of volunteering in this video! Yes, I’ll admit my kids and I are fans. Justin Bieber Billboard Music Awards 2011-12

Need to organize a project quickly?

Add a food or gift drive to your holiday party by asking guests to bring a canned good or hats/gloves/scarves and then take them to a local agency.

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Host a holiday giving themed playgroup and assemble hygiene kits with items such as toothbrushes, toothpaste, combs, floss, nail clippers, lotion, deodorant, razors and shaving cream, soap and shampoo, washcloths or make baby care kits with diapers and wipes and deliver to a shelter.

I love any chance to organize a party especially for a good cause. After the eathquake struck Haiti in 2010, I hosted a playgroup where children learned about the country and put together personal care kits to be sent to Haiti through a local mission group. This turned out to be a fun and meaningful project! While making your kits for a local service provider you can talk to the children about poverty and homelessness using resources such as fact sheets provided by the National Coalition for the Homeless.

Make it a New Year’s resolution and bring in 2012 with a commitment to volunteering, and as you celebrate the season, remember those who have less and think about how you can share with others if you have more to give.

Carolina Parent also provides a calendar of free local events for families to help save money!

How are you and your family doing more with less and giving back this holiday season and in the New Year?

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8 Years Old and Never, Ever Had a Christmas Tree!

Once upon a time there was a little boy living in the Triangle who had never, ever had a Christmas tree!

Little 8 year old Joseph wanted a tree so much. But homeless people don’t get trees and he and his Mom were living on the streets.

They weren’t homeless because of bad choices. His Mom even had a college degree! But she lost her job in Atlanta and she moved home to live with her mom in Durham.

Her mother passed away so she had to move in with her Dad, Joseph’s Grandpa. Grandpa’s girlfriend didn’t like them very much and one day they found themselves tossed out of his home.

How could this story ever have a happy ending?  Click here to find out:  Christmas Story

 




You’ll shoot your eye out!

This time of year,  toy stores are jammed with parents trying to score the best toy for their child on Christmas morning. Many of those parents, full of good will, also purchase a toy for their local Toys for Tots bin. But don’t be fooled – just because little five-year-old Johnny wants a bb gun for Christmas doesn’t mean it’s safe – he’ll shoot his eye out!

 Thankfully, organizations like WATCH (World Against Toys Causing Harm) post the top ten unsafe toy list every year so that you’ll know if what you run out to buy your child (and any child you happen to donate to) is safe for them to play with. This list does assume you  have common sense  though, so please leave the bb gun off the five year old’s wish list. ;) Continue reading




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What kind of person puts ketchup packets in the food drive box?

It’s that time of year when every supermarket and mall has a big, brightly wrapped box near the door with a humble sign asking for a small donation of food or toiletries or clothing. This morning, at the grocery store, I peered into one of these boxes and there, on top of the standard fare of canned corn and rice, there was a cloudy Ziplock bag with several ketchup, mustard and salt packets plus one half-empty bag of Red Hots. I’m normally a half-full kind of gal, but this was half-empty, both literally and metaphorically.

I keep trying to imagine who did that. I doubt someone was walking around with this baggie in their pocket and decided this would be a good place to dump it.

No, this was premeditated and I have three theories: Continue reading