The People on the Bus

Joe Burgess is the manager of United Way of the Greater Triangle’s Technology Outreach Program.  He works in our Teaming for Technology location on McCrimmon Parkway in Morrisville.  He is an avid bicyclist but on inclement days he rides the bus.  This is his story.

Every day is always an experience when you take the bus to work; you make friends and chat with those around you.  You get to meet all sorts of people and even the bus drivers themselves can be quite entertaining.

The other day I left work early because it started to ice.  The bus home was packed and I took the last seat.  I sat next to two ladies in their late sixties. The woman to my left said her home heater just broke and she didn’t have any money to fix it.  I felt bad for her because it was one of the coldest weekends we’ve had around here.  She moved to Raleigh from Barbados 30 years ago and I thought how warm it must be there.

I sat perpendicular to the other lady.  She was on her way to church to fold bulletins for the weekend service.  She saw my Kindle and reckoned she didn’t think she would like to read books on what she called a digital screen.  But as she scrolled through historical artworks, one of the scenes was a famous picture called St. Jerome in His Study, and the church lady knew that one right away.  She pointed out the lion and dog in the foreground.  By the end of the ride we were all friends, with the church lady and the lady from Barbados calling each other “Sisters in Heaven” though they had just met.

Then a sad incident happened which I’ll never forget.  Brooks Avenue is typically a busier stop where people get on and off. The last person to get on was an 83 year old woman.  She was a tiny thing, all bundled up in her jacket and hat.  As she got on, we waited so the driver could give her time to get seated.  Everyone moved their stuff out of the way to give her space to walk down the aisle.  Because it was icy out, I’m sure her feet were wet and slippery as she made her way down the bus aisle. Continue reading




The 3 Most Important Lessons I Have Learned in Life (Non-Profit Edition)

Well, it’s seems that it has happened yet again. I have hit another crossroads in my life and now I am looking for some answers.  But before I can come up with any answers for my current problems, I always reflect on some of the most important lessons I have learned throughout my twenty-seven years of existence. And since I work in a non-profit, I thought it would be fun to share them with a non-profit twist :) .

Anyways, here are three lessons I have learned in life and the non-profit world:

Clean Your Room- One should always be prepared to start over fresh.  Sometimes the best rooms in the home are the ones with little to no clutter. So get rid of all the dead weight.  If something is not worth your time, don’t wait until next season to get rid of the “extra stuff” — do it now!!! Remember your space is your sanctuary.

The non-profit spin- Make a commitment to something new that will make a real difference to your cause and stick with it.  At United Way, we have now focused on three community issuues: financial stability, education and health.  Yes, we weighed all the options.   And yes, it was extremely tough, but we did it!!!     Though there were many other pertinent issues within the community, we selected these three with the guidance of over 200 volunteer leaders.  By learning from the past and “cleaning up our room” we have built on to something that is now cleaner and more focused. 

Be Yourself – Never let anyone stop you from being you.  You are great.  You are wonderful. You are you!

The non-profit spin-   Every non-profit should know their assets and the value they bring to a partnership.  United Way of the Greater Triangle has invested in over 147 programs with 77 Partner Agencies across Durham, Johnston, Orange and Wake counties.  In all four counties, these programs provide high quality services that improve education, health and income and collectively contribute to the overall well-being of our community.

You need true friends – True friends are hard to come by no matter what aspect of life you are in.  True friends are the ones that will not only be there when the times are good, but when times get hard.  These people are the most reliable and most loyal!

The non-profit spin- You need a team of go-to people.   At United Way of the Greater Triangle, the staff, volunteers and partner agencies are compassionate, committed and  intentional individuals that assist in developing resources, programs and systems to meet human needs.  With every dollar raised, UWGT has achieved the greatest community impact and improved the quality of life for all in our community.

 

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30 Days of Thanksgiving

It begins today, November 1.  It’s called “30 Days of Thanksgiving” and the premise is simple.  Each day, starting today and going through the end of November, you think/write/post one thing you are thankful for that day.

Stan, who works in our office and blogs often for us, got many of us started on this last year.  I was one of those folks.

In the beginning, I had tons of things to list but as the month went on, I really had to think a bit more deeply.  After all, life is hard.  Plus I work in an environment where that hardness of life shows up daily – so many people in such dire straits, such desperate need!

Just about the time I think I can’t take the sadness of such desperate need any longer, I get the chance to meet someone like:

JOE: who lost his job, his gorgeous home, and his prized green Jaguar car.  He survived and shares his story with his message of “you don’t need all that stuff to be happy.”

HANNAH: whose parents could not figure out why she stopped talking at 18 months of age.  After numerous specialists’ visits, they learned Hannah was autistic.  Today, Hannah is a bubbly and very talkative 6 year old attending elementary school.

CHARLES: whose pastor found him living in a tool shed.  In his seventies, Charles was barely holding on but with love and care he’s living in his own apartment, eating well and getting plenty of exercise.

So I’m going to start my “30 Days of Thanksgiving” with I am thankful for great organizations like United Way, filled with caring employees and fabulous donors and volunteers, who are making a huge difference to so many people who are struggling with meeting their basic needs of food, shelter, health, education and so much more.

What are you thankful for today?




So you’re an insurance company, right?

Jenny Royer is a recent graduate of UNC-Chapel Hill.  She is working as a campaign associate for United Way of the Greater Triangle.  She wrote this about her experience in her new job.

As a recent college graduate, any social gathering usually yields the same question, “So, what are you doing now??” I used to dread that inevitable question when my only answer was, “Watching The Bachelorette reruns online and applying to any job opening I can get my hands on.” But now I happily reply, “I am working for United Way.”  I stand hopeful they will ask a follow-up question, eagerly waiting to practice my United Way elevator speech.

However, one person’s reply to my current place of employment caught me a bit off guard. She countered, “United Way…that’s insurance right?” I laughed a bit before I could even get an answer out of me. Surely she didn’t really think that, right? Where would she have even generated that idea?

But as I thought about her statement, I began to think…“well, maybe she’s not that far off.” While United Way could never technically be categorized as an insurance company, it certainly shares some similarities with that industry.

in·sur·ance: financial protection against loss or harm: an arrangement by which a company gives customers financial protection against loss or harm such as theft or illness in return for payment premium[1]

United Way of the Greater Triangle funds 147 programs from 77 local partner agencies, to create a safety net for our community. It’s a unique collaboration that is only possible when a caring community puts its resources together for the protection and well-being of its neighbors. While many think of poverty as the lack of money, in reality it is the lack of resources, such as education, technology, health, safety, relational support and other tools needed to become financial stable. The programs you support through your United Way donations provide valuable resources that allow an individual in need to stretch the financial resources she or he has.

The face of poverty is changing. It is no longer the homeless man begging on the street corner. The face of poverty is the face of people just like you and me—the people we work and go to church with, the classmates of our children, the people who thought they had it all. The recession in 2008 resulted in a 25% increase in poverty and we are now at the highest level of poverty in the US since 1964.

While it may seem that the time, talent, and financial resources you give to United Way will never affect you personally, you can rest assured that your contribution directly affects the health of our community as a whole, if not someone you know personally. That’s why we believe this is the best investment you can make.

As many insurance companies suggest with their advertising, life does come at you fast and you never know what circumstances could change your life forever. That’s why it is important that we protect our community by investing in programs that have proven to be strong, productive and effective in changing and improving lives in the Triangle. You can rest easy, Triangle, knowing your donations are in good hands. We are your good neighbor, but we can’t do it alone. We work with hundreds of community volunteers who are dedicated to seeing the lives of our neighbors in need, not only improve, but flourish. That way you know we are able to provide results you can trust and count on.

So maybe I should go back and thank that girl who had mistaken United Way as an insurance company, because I think she has opened my eyes to something very significant about the services United Way provides. With life being as delicate as it is, we are in great need of a safety net formed by the caring community we find ourselves in. Why wouldn’t we invest in a resource that can protect and support the people we love when life doesn’t happen the way we think it should? Perhaps it is scary for some to consider giving up some of their paycheck or time each month. However, if you ask me, the alternative, there being no safety net at all, is far more frightening.



[1] Definition from Bing Dictionary




STOP! It’s 10 – 11 – 12!

STOP!  Right now!  It’s 10/11/12 – that’ right, October 11, 2012.

Today – jump in with both feet and make an impact on our Triangle community!

At 10:00 a.m. (it will be in a few minutes), pledge $11.00 for the next 12 months to help somebody just like you  – except they’ve run into some temporary bad luck.

He might just need some job training, she just might need a place to sleep, they simply could use a good meal.

Seriously $11 for the next 12 months?  How much easier could helping out your neighbor be?

Go to www.unitedwaytriangle.org and click on the big red “GIVE” button.

 

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