It fell into the cart…

My Dad had a sweet tooth.  So whenever he went to the store, candy would end up in the cart.  When my Mom would ask him how that got there, he’d answer, “It fell into the cart.”

Would you be willing to let some things ‘fall into your cart’ this shopping season?  When you are out buying the kids hats and gloves, could you buy one extra pair?  When your baby needs diapers, could you pick up an extra pack?  When you are stocking up on soup for cold days, could you add a few more cans?

We know the need in our community is great.  Ever wonder if there was a small way you could help?  There is!  Let some items like the ones on this list ‘fall into your cart’ and see how many people in need you can help.

The list is broken down by counties and then by nonprofits.  Don’t be overwhelmed, just choose the agency near and dear to your heart or just search and see which agency is looking for diapers or gloves or soup!  It’s that easy!

We thank you!  Let us know if you decide to help any of these nonprofits with their needs.  We’d love to give you a shout out on Facebook and Twitter!

 

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Dear Santa, I’d like a Justin Bieber doll….and please help my Dad find a job.

North Charleston Christmas Festival and ParadeWith the struggling economy and high unemployment, many families have fewer resources this year, and children who are sensitive to their parent’s situations are asking for less from Santa.  According to the Associated Press, Santa is hearing requests for the necessities – a job for mom, money for heat, gloves or shoes.

Our local parenting magazine Carolina Parent highlights this article in their recent piece and offers suggestions on how families can turn this difficult time into a positive learning experience by emphasizing the value of giving over receiving.

There a multiple opportunities for children to help others in the community by delivering meals through Meals on Wheels, serving or providing food to local shelters like the Inter-Faith Council for Social Service, or contributing through programs like Share your Christmas with the Volunteer Center of Durham.  Call one of our Partner Agencies to find out how you could help families served by their organization over the holidays and throughout the year.

Need some help convincing your kiddos?  Who better to help sell them on volunteering than Justin Bieber, who talks about the importance of volunteering in this video! Yes, I’ll admit my kids and I are fans. Justin Bieber Billboard Music Awards 2011-12

Need to organize a project quickly?

Add a food or gift drive to your holiday party by asking guests to bring a canned good or hats/gloves/scarves and then take them to a local agency.

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Host a holiday giving themed playgroup and assemble hygiene kits with items such as toothbrushes, toothpaste, combs, floss, nail clippers, lotion, deodorant, razors and shaving cream, soap and shampoo, washcloths or make baby care kits with diapers and wipes and deliver to a shelter.

I love any chance to organize a party especially for a good cause. After the eathquake struck Haiti in 2010, I hosted a playgroup where children learned about the country and put together personal care kits to be sent to Haiti through a local mission group. This turned out to be a fun and meaningful project! While making your kits for a local service provider you can talk to the children about poverty and homelessness using resources such as fact sheets provided by the National Coalition for the Homeless.

Make it a New Year’s resolution and bring in 2012 with a commitment to volunteering, and as you celebrate the season, remember those who have less and think about how you can share with others if you have more to give.

Carolina Parent also provides a calendar of free local events for families to help save money!

How are you and your family doing more with less and giving back this holiday season and in the New Year?

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8 Years Old and Never, Ever Had a Christmas Tree!

Once upon a time there was a little boy living in the Triangle who had never, ever had a Christmas tree!

Little 8 year old Joseph wanted a tree so much. But homeless people don’t get trees and he and his Mom were living on the streets.

They weren’t homeless because of bad choices. His Mom even had a college degree! But she lost her job in Atlanta and she moved home to live with her mom in Durham.

Her mother passed away so she had to move in with her Dad, Joseph’s Grandpa. Grandpa’s girlfriend didn’t like them very much and one day they found themselves tossed out of his home.

How could this story ever have a happy ending?  Click here to find out:  Christmas Story

 




You’ll shoot your eye out!

This time of year,  toy stores are jammed with parents trying to score the best toy for their child on Christmas morning. Many of those parents, full of good will, also purchase a toy for their local Toys for Tots bin. But don’t be fooled – just because little five-year-old Johnny wants a bb gun for Christmas doesn’t mean it’s safe – he’ll shoot his eye out!

 Thankfully, organizations like WATCH (World Against Toys Causing Harm) post the top ten unsafe toy list every year so that you’ll know if what you run out to buy your child (and any child you happen to donate to) is safe for them to play with. This list does assume you  have common sense  though, so please leave the bb gun off the five year old’s wish list. ;) Continue reading




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What kind of person puts ketchup packets in the food drive box?

It’s that time of year when every supermarket and mall has a big, brightly wrapped box near the door with a humble sign asking for a small donation of food or toiletries or clothing. This morning, at the grocery store, I peered into one of these boxes and there, on top of the standard fare of canned corn and rice, there was a cloudy Ziplock bag with several ketchup, mustard and salt packets plus one half-empty bag of Red Hots. I’m normally a half-full kind of gal, but this was half-empty, both literally and metaphorically.

I keep trying to imagine who did that. I doubt someone was walking around with this baggie in their pocket and decided this would be a good place to dump it.

No, this was premeditated and I have three theories: Continue reading